Is there any doubt that the same is true today? When the press is fixated on good things, good things just might happen. When they are fixated on the negative, bad things always happen.
Of course we understand why they are usually fixated on the negative. It’s because “good news is not good news.” I can come up with many examples of this premise in action. And I will. That’s much too easy a challenge. Can’t we all come up with the names of celebrities and politicians who’s careers have been ruined due to the relentless “investigative journalism” of the media for transgressions that are incredibly common place today? And doesn’t the transgression usually involve some type of marital infidelity. And doesn’t the media usually pay somebody well for admitting they were involved in the marital infidelity? Or to be more to the point…doesn’t the media pay somebody well to admit that they are a home wrecking whore?
Okay, after yesterday’s revelations this subject is getting beaten to death. As is Tiger Woods in effigy. I started this tirade as simply a comment on my daughter’s blog. But the more I thought about it the more I realized I had much to say about the subject. This is going to be a long one! So either sit back and relax and read it, or exit. No difference to me because I’m just venting! My daughter titled her blog entry “Are you REALLY that surprised?”
To me the subject isn’t Tiger Woods at all! The subject is the news media!
Cheating on your spouse is wrong, that’s a given. People do it everyday, that’s also a given. It was bad, it was dishonest, and it totally sucks. Even an atheist would agree with that.
What amazes me the most is what the news media does when there is no "new" major stories to report. They resort to GOSSIP! Isn’t there enough gossip on television already? Aren’t there enough shows like TMZ, Extra, and a dozen others to cover this subject? The answer is yes, of course. But if you’ve listened to the news the last couple of days, on the radio or TV, the ONLY subject being discussed in depth relates to Tiger Woods. That is also true on sports talk stations. Seriously, does this story have anything to do with sports? The Tiger Woods story probably even prevented us from seeing the daily “high speed police pursuit!” I bet a lot of people are pissed!
And don’t give me that crap about role models. Generally speaking sports stars, politicians, celebrities, and many televangelists are the worst role models of all. Money, fame, and power are apparently things most people can’t handle.
There’s a small section of the LA Times called “Jurisprudence” that reports the arrests and legal problems of pro and college athletes. It’s amazing! Especially in the NFL and college. Now don’t go racial on me here. That’s not what it’s about! These morons come from all backgrounds.
Seriously? Why does a professional athlete need to go into a public nightclub and get drunk? And why does he have to carry a gun with him? Why does he have to carry drugs and/or guns in his car? Why does he have to drive his mega-expensive sports car or SUV at speeds of over a hundred miles an hour on public roads and highways? This isn’t the friggin autobahn!
And why oh why don't these no common-sense spoiled brat idiots have the self control not to have their heads turned by a trollop serving them food or drinks in a restaurant or bar? And why don’t they know by now that the odds of this trollop trying to parlay their “affair” into money or 15 minutes of fame are extremely high?
More? Why do actors of both sexes seem to have to marry every co-star of the opposite sex they work with? Aren’t they embarrassed? And don’t they realize that they too will be dumped or cheated on after the next movie? Album? Sports contract? Election? Etc?
The major subject on every newscast, every night, has got to be the war and the economy. We are spending BILLIONS of dollars that we don’t have on the war, and it’s sinking us. Did you know we are rapidly approaching a TRILLION dollars spent in Iraq and Afghanistan? Go ahead and blame the housing market if you want, but please realize that a trillion dollars is a thousand billions…Can you really even wrap your mind around that number?
I’m not saying where I stand on the war (I will if you want me to), but I know a lot of people don’t have a pot to piss in domestically, and social security is about to go belly up, but we seem to have enough to spend elsewhere. What the?
Do you know how much of our gross national product we spend on foreign aid and UN related projects? Did you know that 70% of the government's incoming tax revenues are already spent before they can decide what to do with it? Did you know we've spent a trillion dollars in Iraq and Afghanistan? Did you know that civilian US contractors have made billions in Iraq?
But rather than report the reality of our world. The ”fourth estate” resorts to Gossip because it gets higher ratings!
Okay now that I have that out of the way:
Do you think Tiger’s injuries were caused by the wreck or by his wife trying to beat the hell out of him with a golf club? I've got to know!
If nothing I've said in the first 90 percent of this entry convinces you of the power of the media, the statement I just made should…
Okay, I know I got way off of my original train of thought here but I sure feel better!
i agree with you so much.
ReplyDeleteso much, that is why most of my blog entries are so negative.
negative makes the best news.... the news that people want to read about, because it makes them feel better about themselves.... like they aren't the only ones who have bad days.... they aren't the only ones who feel guilty and horrible at times.... it goes back to the whole train wreck/car accident thing.... as horrible as the incident may be, you just can't help but to look.... even if it upsets your stomach.... you still look.... or like a really good surgery!!!! the smell of burning skin being cut open.... UGH! it's NASTY, but you still watch, and you don't leave the room....
AND, it kind of followed my other blog entry "once upon a time" which is just about the expectations we have of people in general.... i just so happened to use my husband as the example, but we all do it.... with everyone.... WHO CARES ABOUT ANYONE ELSE?! Why DO we care about others so much? probably because there is far more we COULD care about if we looked inward.... but to take the focus off of ourselves (as some, or most of us would) we look outward rather than in....
and that, my friends, is ashley's news views in a jiffy.... lol sorry i rambled on poppa. but i do agree with you very much here... although i don't know all the stats on the war, i would like to know more about what we are going to do to fix this whole thing rather than who Tiger Wood's flavor of the week is....
Thanks Ash!
ReplyDeleteI wonder if we were born to "have to know" everything negative about people, or if we've been conditioned to do so. Or many we've just been de-sensitized to it all
This is interesting to look back on. I remember the big hoopla about Tiger Woods cheating on his wife, but I paid little attention, then or now, to media hyperbole. In fact, I don't watch TV at all, and haven't in almost 8 years. I don't listen to the news, because, amazingly, more than I want to know leaks into my life without bothering with what the media has to say every few minutes about things that aren't important. Instead, I search out one or two stories of good people, good things, good happenings every day. My outlook has grown much more positive since I began doing that, and since I've started expecting people to be better than they are reported to be. =)
ReplyDeleteThanks for taking the time to read this post, and also for commenting on it.
ReplyDeleteI don't like the news much myself. I do watch it though. Mostly documentaries and things like that. When I do watch the news, I sometimes find myself arguing with what they are saying. They can't even hear me! I totally believe that not watching the news would change my outlook on some things.